Why Eloise Bridgerton doesn't want to marry

I have not read the books. This is only about the show. Eloise Bridgerton is among the kind of fictional women who declare and reinforce the idea that they will never marry. The people around these kinds of characters usually hold out hope that this is not true and they are usually right to do so. Unlike characters who are say aro/ace, characters like Eloise have some reason behind their insistence on never wanting to marry. In fact, their insistence shows that this is a choice rather than a preference. In the case of Eloise, the reason behind her insistence seems obvious: feminism. However, that isn’t the actual reason. The reason lies in the trauma of the night of Hyacinth’s birth. In episode 2 of season 1, Eloise has a conversation with her sister, Daphne, asking her if she is frightened of marriage and children. Eloise recalls the night when their youngest sister, Hyacinth was born. She talks about how their mother, Violet, almost died that night, that her screams rattled the windo...